[embodiment] notes various
( mild anaemia )
The other topic is Physio, and specifically a bunch of the stuff I've been doing courtesy of the (NHS) Lower Limbs Class I've been intermittently going to since the summer; I am finally managing to add Doing This Stuff Once A Week (Not At Class) into my routine, and in addition to just getting better at the exercises themselves I have noticed repeatedly this week that I'm finding getting up from e.g. being sat on the beanbag much easier.
Life with two kids: Bedtime arguments with a five year old
Me: Gideon, do you want Daddy to shout at you?
Gideon: No
Me: I don't want to shout at you either.
Gideon: Good
Me: So, how do we make Daddy not shout at you?
Gideon: Not muck about in bed
Me: So you're going to curl up, get comfy and go to sleep
Gideon: Yes
...Three minutes pass...
Gideon: Fidgets
Gideon: Plays with his foot
Gideon: Sings songs under his breath
Gideon: Makes clicking noises
Me: Gideon, if you aren't quiet, I'll get grumpy with you. Is that what you want?
Gideon: No. I'll be good.
...Three more minutes pass...
Gideon: Sings, fidgets, rolls over, refuses to hold still, twists his arms around his legs until he looks like a pretzel, and then grins at me
Me: WILL YOU LIE STILL, STOP MUCKING ABOUT AND GO TO SLEEP.
Gideon: Gets tears in his eyes, chokes up slightly, curls up, and stops mucking about,
Gideon: goes to sleep in about 45 seconds.
Me: Is stressed for about half an hour and angry at myself.
If anyone has advice on how we can skip stages 9 through 17 I would appreciate it.
The Friday Five for 7 November 2025
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Interesting Links for 07-11-2025
- 1. Researchers uncover AI bias against older working women
- (tags:women age ai OhForFucksSake bias )
- 2. Britain Is Having the World's Most Extreme Immigration Debate
- (tags:UK immigration OhForFucksSake )
- 3. What percentage of English derives from which languages?
- (tags:language english uk history )
- 4. Australia has so much solar that it's offering everyone free electricity
- (tags:australia electricity solarpower economics )
- 5. Rockstar Games Employee posts about recent union-busting efforts
- (tags:rockstar gta unions OhForFucksSake )
- 6. Metformin reduces the benefits of exercise in people with diabetes
- (tags:diabetes exercise drugs )
- 7. Labour spending billions on actually building social housing. Finally!
- (tags:labour housing GoodNews )
- 8. The UK Personal Finance Flowchart (an excellent guide to help you think about your finances)
- (tags:finances uk advice )
Managed some hobby coding.
I split my rust tile game into two. That was a slog but very satisfying. The base engine stores a map with objects, each game specialises the objects and the interaction logic. Originally "push blocks, avoid enemies" and I want to add "follow user's flow-chart like program" instead.
That's compile-time templating not run-time polymorphism. Rust made me realise that for many many purposes those are conceptually incredibly similar. I think the difference is, almost all the types in the engine need to be templated on game-specific data because an Engine containing a Map containing an Obj they likely all need to be compiled knowing how many bytes Obj's Property struct uses.
git shortcuts
I also updated my git shortcuts with something I wanted to add for ages:
`git extract commithash path1 path2`
Rebases a commit on the current branch, to split the changes in those paths out into a separate commit. I often find myself accidentally combining a comment change in a different place, or wanting to separate out a piece of functionality which is all in one module, and it seems to take half a dozen steps to do it manually.
I made a bunch of shortcuts for me, common ones:
g a: git add, but add everything if no paths are given
g c: git commit
g d: diff, sometimes with some extra info
g dh: diff to HEAD
g l: log of current branch from fork point
g ls: log, showing file names with --stat
g lp: log, showing diff with -p
g r: rebase onto given branch, *or* else rebase interactive from current fork point.
g t: Add a tag with current branch name and date and comment
[pain] huh
Published 9th October: clinical practice recommendations for mixed pain. Apparently This Idea's Time Has Come, at least when it comes to, you know, starting to get shit published in Frontiers In.
(Today's work has included poking at both Pain Toolkit and Live Well With Pain, neither of which say The Thing. And also a third person, but they are a charlatan and I refuse even to link to them.)
Oh, and look, PainScience.com is being extremely relevant to my interests again, this time on the question of whether pain can become a conditioned response.
Interesting Links for 06-11-2025
- 1. NY school smartphone ban has made lunch loud again
- (tags:school phones )
- 2. People are *terrible* at telling when they're being flirted with
- (tags:relationships psychology )
- 3. Pros And Cons Of A 3rd Trump Term
- (tags:politics usa satire funny )
- 4. MSPs defend working with groups opposed to abortion and marriage equality
- (tags:Scotland abortion LGBT OhForFucksSake marriage )
- 5. The Anti Defamation League has gone from fighting antisemitism to fuelling Islamophobia
- (tags:Jews islam palestine charity OhForFucksSake )
SNAP [curr ev, US]
I commend the following video to you. It's longish - 26 minutes – but worth your time.
2025 Nov 1: Hank Green [
Hank Green, of vlogbrothers fame, invites Jeannie Hunter, Tennessee regional director of the Society of St. Andrew (aka EndHunger.org), on to his personal chanenel explain how the US's Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, aka SNAP, aka "Food Stamps", actually works.
Hunter turns out to be a great interview subject and the resultant conversation was fascinating. I highly recommend it - not just to understand what's at stake in the goverment shutdown, but for your own simple enjoyment of learning how things actually work, and also so you can more eloquently advocate for this system.
today, for reasons, we went to Bromley
For reasons this also revealed that the hair stick that went missing after E4, that I was convinced that field had also eaten, to the point that I'd almost resigned myself to just fucking buying another one, had been lurking in (one of) the bag(s) I'd already checked like three times.
And. Upon leaving the carpark. We were greeted by this:

[a municipal garden bed drifted with autumn leaves, behind which a wall, behind which some trees, behind which a house]
Which, when you look a little closer, contains signs:

[zoomed in on the wall. there are two painted signs, A-road style, white on green, pointing left. the top one reads "POLAR BEARS/PENGUINS/GORILLAS". the bottom reads "GIRAFFE/HOUSE".]
( +5 )
When the Wolf Comes Home, by Nat Cassidy

This book is very hard to describe without spoilers, so I'll just cover the setup. Aspiring actress/current waitress Jess is having a bad night that gets much worse when she finds a scared little boy who's run away from his father. Things get extremely strange from there. This book is a wild ride.
I read it in a single sitting, so it's very propulsive. It's also very dark/bleak, despite some absurdist humor arising from the premise. I enjoyed it a lot while I read it, but it's now months later and it hasn't quite stuck with me the way some other books have. Nestlings is still my favorite of his.
Content notes: Child abuse/harm is central to the story. So is an accidental needle-stick with a possibly contaminated needle.
Spoilers! Also contains some light spoilers for Stephen King's Firestarter.
( Read more... )
Interesting Links for 05-11-2025
- 1. EU moves to prevent 'Trojan horses' from joining bloc
- (tags:democracy europe russia )
- 2. Confused about JCVI and COVID shots
- (tags:pandemic vaccination )
- 3. Elon Musk does not understand The Lord Of The Rings
- (tags:ElonMusk lotr )
- 4. Tolkien, Lewis, and The Silver Chair Theory
- (tags:Tolkien CSLewis history writing lotr narnia relationships )
- 5. What happens when you try to meet transphobes halfway
- (tags:bigotry LGBT transgender )
- 6. Takeaways from Tuesday's US elections
- (tags:USA elections GoodNews )
- 7. 3/4 of CEOs believe they have to have an AI strategy or they'll be replaced (which explains why there's so much investment into it)
- (tags:ai business )
- 8. Why is land reform on the agenda in Scotland?
- (tags:land scotland law )
- 9. Covid jabs gave under-18s heart problems - but were less risky than catching virus
- (tags:pandemic safety vaccination )
To-read pile, 2025, October
Books on pre-order:
- Platform Decay (Murderbot 8) by Martha Wells (5 May 2025)
Books acquired in October:
- and read:
- The Mirror & The Maze (Wrath & the Dawn) by Renée Ahdieh
- The Crown & The Arrow (Wrath & the Dawn) by Renée Ahdieh
- The Moth & The Flame (Wrath & the Dawn) by Renée Ahdieh
- On The Fly (Portland Storm 2) by Catherine Gayle
- Taking A Shot (Portland Storm 3) by Catherine Gayle
- Light The Lamp (Portland Storm 4) by Catherine Gayle
- The O Zone by Kelly Jamieson [7]
- Hockey Halloween: A Charity Anthology
- and unread:
- Queen Demon (Rising World 2) by Martha Wells [1]
Books acquired previously and read in October:
- The Element of Fire by Martha Wells [Sep]
- The Death of the Necromancer by Martha Wells [Sep]
Borrowed books read in October:
- The Perplexing Theft of the Jewel in the Crown (Baby Ganesha 2) by Vaseem Khan [3]
- The Strange Disappearance of a Bollywood Star (Baby Ganesha 3) by Vaseem Khan [3]
Much of the month's reading has been alternating between hockey romance and Mumbai private detective stories, along with a complete failure to read my long-awaited pre-order of the latest Martha Wells. (but I did read different new-to-me Martha Wells, so yay?)
[1] Pre-order
[2] Audiobook
[3] Physical book
[4] Crowdfunding
[5] Goodbye read
[6] Cambridgeshire Reads/Listens
[7] FaRoFeb / FaRoCation / Bookmas / HRBC
[8] Prime Reading / Kindle Unlimited
- allergies,
- animation,
- art,
- bigotry,
- cambridge,
- dungeonsanddragons,
- entertainment,
- epicfail,
- fighting,
- flash,
- food,
- france,
- goodnews,
- healthcare,
- history,
- infection,
- links,
- meat,
- mentalhealth,
- museums,
- ohforfuckssake,
- petition,
- school,
- scotland,
- security,
- transgender,
- uk,
- university,
- usa,
- vaccine,
- web
Interesting Links for 04-11-2025
- 1. Dungeons & Dragons is great for brain health (particularly the elderly and people with disabilities)
- (tags:dungeonsanddragons mentalhealth entertainment )
- 2. NHS threatens GP practice over trans care
- (tags:transgender UK bigotry healthcare OhForFucksSake )
- 3. Cambridge University's oldest women-only college, Newnham, stands firm for trans inclusion
- (tags:transgender Cambridge university GoodNews )
- 4. Novel peanut allergy vaccine shows promise to transform allergy care
- (tags:allergies vaccine )
- 5. Petition to make schools in Scotland safe for pupils with allergies
- (tags:allergies scotland school petition )
- 6. 20% of US UTIs are caused by contimated meat
- (tags:usa meat food infection )
- 7. When Stick Figures Fought (A history of the stick figure combat flash animations of the early 200s)
- (tags:history fighting animation web Flash )
- 8. The password for the Louvre's Video Surveillance System was "Louvre"
- (tags:art museums security epicfail france )
Interesting Links for 03-11-2025
- 1. A Review of Grokipedia
- (tags:ai wiki encyclopedia )
- 2. We Don't Take Covid Seriously Enough (lots and lots of research condensed here)
- (tags:Pandemic doom )
- 3. Linux gamers on Steam finally cross over the 3% mark
- (tags:gaming linux steam )
- 4. The FT is now asking when the AI bubble will burst.
- (tags:finance economics ai doom bubble )
A Thought on the Moment - 2 Nov. 2025
So I'll have to put up with some things and complain as needed.
vital functions
Observing. All Souls'. Candle lit; Seelkuchen eaten.
Reading. ( Rucka, Waitrose Cookery School, Stocks, Duncan, Ravindran )
Playing. Merrily pootling along with I Love Hue. Hatched my first dragon with Primal eyes in The Dragons Game.
Cooking. Two variations on a recipe: smitten kitchen's winter squash and spinach pasta bake and the recipe that inspired it, Ottolenghi's pasta and butternut squash cake. On the first day I definitely preferred the smitten kitchen version; on subsequent days I became increasingly convinced by the Ottolenghi. (You see, I had about twice as much of all of the ingredients as I needed, and the spinach definitely needed eating Imminently, and so I thought I'd make them simultaneously so we could do the side-by-side comparison and then freeze some...)
And then this evening I made another round of the wahaca autumn stew with pipián, this time with even wronger chillis but a sensible amount of herbs, and was delighted that it met with my mother's approval.
Eating. SCHWARZBROT with Lizard honey. Curries various courtesy of my father. Salads and lunches various courtesy of my mother. The dark chocolate & raspberry stars that are a Special Seasonal Treat. National Trust lemon drizzle cake. A RASPBERRY.
Exploring. THE NEW SITE FOR ADMIN: THE LRP. And this afternoon we went on an adventure to Anglesey Abbey, where the dahlias were alas gone but we found many many more cyclamen than we knew were there, and several things in the winter garden were at a different stage than I think I'd ever seen them before and were extremely pretty with it.
Creating. Carved a pumpkin for the toddler!
Translation notes
ETA. Also, in verse 13, the bit which the NRSV renders "it was you who formed my inward parts" could also be read as "it was you who bought my kidney". This is also delightful, in quite a different way.
Baseball Sorrow 2025
Perfect South Park ending to this series, I suspect, would be for the Jays and Dodgers to jointly storm the White House and turn the Vulgarian and his various accomplices over to the Hague.
Your opinions will, I expect, differ from mine.
Commiserating with my fellow Jays fans this morning in any case...and now we get on with the CFL playoffs and the NBA, WNBA, NHL and PWHL regular seasons, right?