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kaberett ([personal profile] kaberett) wrote2025-11-07 09:35 pm

[embodiment] notes various

mild anaemia )

The other topic is Physio, and specifically a bunch of the stuff I've been doing courtesy of the (NHS) Lower Limbs Class I've been intermittently going to since the summer; I am finally managing to add Doing This Stuff Once A Week (Not At Class) into my routine, and in addition to just getting better at the exercises themselves I have noticed repeatedly this week that I'm finding getting up from e.g. being sat on the beanbag much easier.

a little more on exercise )

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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2025-11-07 08:14 pm

Life with two kids: Bedtime arguments with a five year old

Every night for the past two weeks it's gone something like this:
Me: Gideon, do you want Daddy to shout at you?
Gideon: No
Me: I don't want to shout at you either.
Gideon: Good
Me: So, how do we make Daddy not shout at you?
Gideon: Not muck about in bed
Me: So you're going to curl up, get comfy and go to sleep
Gideon: Yes
...Three minutes pass...
Gideon: Fidgets
Gideon: Plays with his foot
Gideon: Sings songs under his breath
Gideon: Makes clicking noises
Me: Gideon, if you aren't quiet, I'll get grumpy with you. Is that what you want?
Gideon: No. I'll be good.
...Three more minutes pass...
Gideon: Sings, fidgets, rolls over, refuses to hold still, twists his arms around his legs until he looks like a pretzel, and then grins at me
Me: WILL YOU LIE STILL, STOP MUCKING ABOUT AND GO TO SLEEP.
Gideon: Gets tears in his eyes, chokes up slightly, curls up, and stops mucking about,
Gideon: goes to sleep in about 45 seconds.
Me: Is stressed for about half an hour and angry at myself.

If anyone has advice on how we can skip stages 9 through 17 I would appreciate it.
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anais_pf ([personal profile] anais_pf) wrote in [community profile] thefridayfive2025-11-07 11:50 am

The Friday Five for 7 November 2025

These questions were originally suggested by [livejournal.com profile] newagebastard.

1. What’s harder to live without, chocolate or alcohol?

2. Does the colour yellow remind you of anything?

3. Who most annoyed you last week?

4. Do you have a cutesy romantic nickname for your partner (or previous partners)?

5. What is your favourite Stephen King movie?

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jack ([personal profile] jack) wrote2025-11-07 10:37 am

Managed some hobby coding.

rust tile game

I split my rust tile game into two. That was a slog but very satisfying. The base engine stores a map with objects, each game specialises the objects and the interaction logic. Originally "push blocks, avoid enemies" and I want to add "follow user's flow-chart like program" instead.

That's compile-time templating not run-time polymorphism. Rust made me realise that for many many purposes those are conceptually incredibly similar. I think the difference is, almost all the types in the engine need to be templated on game-specific data because an Engine containing a Map containing an Obj they likely all need to be compiled knowing how many bytes Obj's Property struct uses.

git shortcuts

I also updated my git shortcuts with something I wanted to add for ages:

`git extract commithash path1 path2`

Rebases a commit on the current branch, to split the changes in those paths out into a separate commit. I often find myself accidentally combining a comment change in a different place, or wanting to separate out a piece of functionality which is all in one module, and it seems to take half a dozen steps to do it manually.

I made a bunch of shortcuts for me, common ones:

g a: git add, but add everything if no paths are given
g c: git commit
g d: diff, sometimes with some extra info
g dh: diff to HEAD
g l: log of current branch from fork point
g ls: log, showing file names with --stat
g lp: log, showing diff with -p
g r: rebase onto given branch, *or* else rebase interactive from current fork point.
g t: Add a tag with current branch name and date and comment
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kaberett ([personal profile] kaberett) wrote2025-11-06 10:33 pm
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[pain] huh

Published 9th October: clinical practice recommendations for mixed pain. Apparently This Idea's Time Has Come, at least when it comes to, you know, starting to get shit published in Frontiers In.

(Today's work has included poking at both Pain Toolkit and Live Well With Pain, neither of which say The Thing. And also a third person, but they are a charlatan and I refuse even to link to them.)

Oh, and look, PainScience.com is being extremely relevant to my interests again, this time on the question of whether pain can become a conditioned response.

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Siderea ([personal profile] siderea) wrote2025-11-06 03:12 am
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SNAP [curr ev, US]

Americans, as I hope you know, on Nov 1st, the Federal government, being shut down, did not transmit the money to the states to pay for the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, aka SNAP, aka "Food Stamps". In many states, SNAP money is supposed to hit recipients' EBT cards on the first of the month. It didn't. There is in the SNAP budget funds to cover emergencies, but Trump said he would not release it; lawsuits ensued, and as of right now, partial payments are going to be or have been made.

I commend the following video to you. It's longish - 26 minutes – but worth your time.

2025 Nov 1: Hank Green [[profile] hankschannel on YT]: "This Shutdown is Different"

Hank Green, of vlogbrothers fame, invites Jeannie Hunter, Tennessee regional director of the Society of St. Andrew (aka EndHunger.org), on to his personal chanenel explain how the US's Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, aka SNAP, aka "Food Stamps", actually works.

Hunter turns out to be a great interview subject and the resultant conversation was fascinating. I highly recommend it - not just to understand what's at stake in the goverment shutdown, but for your own simple enjoyment of learning how things actually work, and also so you can more eloquently advocate for this system.

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kaberett ([personal profile] kaberett) wrote2025-11-05 10:55 pm

today, for reasons, we went to Bromley

For reasons this also revealed that the hair stick that went missing after E4, that I was convinced that field had also eaten, to the point that I'd almost resigned myself to just fucking buying another one, had been lurking in (one of) the bag(s) I'd already checked like three times.

And. Upon leaving the carpark. We were greeted by this:

[a municipal garden bed drifted with autumn leaves, behind which a wall, behind which some trees, behind which a house]

Which, when you look a little closer, contains signs:

[zoomed in on the wall. there are two painted signs, A-road style, white on green, pointing left. the top one reads "POLAR BEARS/PENGUINS/GORILLAS". the bottom reads "GIRAFFE/HOUSE".]

+5 )

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rachelmanija ([personal profile] rachelmanija) wrote2025-11-05 09:26 am

When the Wolf Comes Home, by Nat Cassidy



This book is very hard to describe without spoilers, so I'll just cover the setup. Aspiring actress/current waitress Jess is having a bad night that gets much worse when she finds a scared little boy who's run away from his father. Things get extremely strange from there. This book is a wild ride.

I read it in a single sitting, so it's very propulsive. It's also very dark/bleak, despite some absurdist humor arising from the premise. I enjoyed it a lot while I read it, but it's now months later and it hasn't quite stuck with me the way some other books have. Nestlings is still my favorite of his.

Content notes: Child abuse/harm is central to the story. So is an accidental needle-stick with a possibly contaminated needle.

Spoilers! Also contains some light spoilers for Stephen King's Firestarter.

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Rachel Coleman ([personal profile] rmc28) wrote2025-11-04 10:17 pm

To-read pile, 2025, October

Books on pre-order:

  1. Platform Decay (Murderbot 8) by Martha Wells (5 May 2025)

Books acquired in October:

  • and read:
    1. The Mirror & The Maze (Wrath & the Dawn) by Renée Ahdieh
    2. The Crown & The Arrow (Wrath & the Dawn) by Renée Ahdieh
    3. The Moth & The Flame (Wrath & the Dawn) by Renée Ahdieh
    4. On The Fly (Portland Storm 2) by Catherine Gayle
    5. Taking A Shot (Portland Storm 3) by Catherine Gayle
    6. Light The Lamp (Portland Storm 4) by Catherine Gayle
    7. The O Zone by Kelly Jamieson [7]
    8. Hockey Halloween: A Charity Anthology
  • and unread:
    1. Queen Demon (Rising World 2) by Martha Wells [1]

Books acquired previously and read in October:

  1. The Element of Fire by Martha Wells [Sep]
  2. The Death of the Necromancer by Martha Wells [Sep]

Borrowed books read in October:

  1. The Perplexing Theft of the Jewel in the Crown (Baby Ganesha 2) by Vaseem Khan [3]
  2. The Strange Disappearance of a Bollywood Star (Baby Ganesha 3) by Vaseem Khan [3]

Much of the month's reading has been alternating between hockey romance and Mumbai private detective stories, along with a complete failure to read my long-awaited pre-order of the latest Martha Wells. (but I did read different new-to-me Martha Wells, so yay?)

[1] Pre-order
[2] Audiobook
[3] Physical book
[4] Crowdfunding
[5] Goodbye read
[6] Cambridgeshire Reads/Listens
[7] FaRoFeb / FaRoCation / Bookmas / HRBC
[8] Prime Reading / Kindle Unlimited

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On the DEWLine 2.0: Dwight Williams ([personal profile] dewline) wrote2025-11-02 07:09 pm

A Thought on the Moment - 2 Nov. 2025

I'd prefer Trudeau, Carney, Davies, Angus, May and Freeland as a team on the current polycrisis. However, I'm not going to get that. Yet, if ever.

So I'll have to put up with some things and complain as needed.
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kaberett ([personal profile] kaberett) wrote2025-11-02 10:10 pm
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vital functions

Observing. All Souls'. Candle lit; Seelkuchen eaten.

Reading. Rucka, Waitrose Cookery School, Stocks, Duncan, Ravindran )

Playing. Merrily pootling along with I Love Hue. Hatched my first dragon with Primal eyes in The Dragons Game.

Cooking. Two variations on a recipe: smitten kitchen's winter squash and spinach pasta bake and the recipe that inspired it, Ottolenghi's pasta and butternut squash cake. On the first day I definitely preferred the smitten kitchen version; on subsequent days I became increasingly convinced by the Ottolenghi. (You see, I had about twice as much of all of the ingredients as I needed, and the spinach definitely needed eating Imminently, and so I thought I'd make them simultaneously so we could do the side-by-side comparison and then freeze some...)

And then this evening I made another round of the wahaca autumn stew with pipián, this time with even wronger chillis but a sensible amount of herbs, and was delighted that it met with my mother's approval.

Eating. SCHWARZBROT with Lizard honey. Curries various courtesy of my father. Salads and lunches various courtesy of my mother. The dark chocolate & raspberry stars that are a Special Seasonal Treat. National Trust lemon drizzle cake. A RASPBERRY.

Exploring. THE NEW SITE FOR ADMIN: THE LRP. And this afternoon we went on an adventure to Anglesey Abbey, where the dahlias were alas gone but we found many many more cyclamen than we knew were there, and several things in the winter garden were at a different stage than I think I'd ever seen them before and were extremely pretty with it.

Creating. Carved a pumpkin for the toddler!

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Sebastian ([personal profile] wildeabandon) wrote2025-11-02 09:58 pm

Translation notes

One of my assignments this semester is an exegesis of Psalm 139, and I figured it would be good to start by doing my own translation of it, which is how I discovered that in verse 15, which the NRSV renders "My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth." the verb used, קרם, means specifically to weave variegated, colourful material. I found this delightful.

ETA. Also, in verse 13, the bit which the NRSV renders "it was you who formed my inward parts" could also be read as "it was you who bought my kidney". This is also delightful, in quite a different way.
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On the DEWLine 2.0: Dwight Williams ([personal profile] dewline) wrote2025-11-02 09:18 am

Baseball Sorrow 2025

Well, our team got as far as they could. This time.

Perfect South Park ending to this series, I suspect, would be for the Jays and Dodgers to jointly storm the White House and turn the Vulgarian and his various accomplices over to the Hague.

Your opinions will, I expect, differ from mine.

Commiserating with my fellow Jays fans this morning in any case...and now we get on with the CFL playoffs and the NBA, WNBA, NHL and PWHL regular seasons, right?
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bikergeek ([personal profile] bikergeek) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2025-11-02 12:31 am

My husband knows I’m traumatized by grippy socks, yet he keeps giving them to me

https://www.mercurynews.com/2025/11/01/asking-eric-thomas-traumatic-socks/

Dear Eric: My husband of more than 20 years gives me slipper socks with grippy soles. I hate them!

We live in a hot climate, so I have little use for them. They filled up my sock drawer and retraumatized me every time I touched them. I threw them away and they came back.

He gave me five more pairs at Christmas. They can’t be worn with shoes or out in public. They are synthetic so I cannot even use them to polish the furniture. I kept them for animal first aid.

I cannot be cool about these socks. They remind me of the horrible time I had in the hospital having emergency surgery. My husband couldn’t even manage to hug me or talk with me before my surgery.

I’m trying very hard to be graceful and grateful for any gift from my husband, but I want to throw these at him. He knows darn well I dislike them but has given them repeatedly to me. I have to use my good fabric shears to slice them up or he will “rescue them” from the garbage.

Is there a graceful way to handle the next installment of fluffy grippy socks? I tried to no avail telling him I get my grippy socks the old-fashioned way – at the hospital, in person!

– Sock Drawer Full

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